Being Permanently Stuck
“Getting stuck” doesn’t necessarily translate into career issues. Although, it certainly is referenced enough as a place where most people would rather not be. Being stuck can mean “not being able to move forward in a relationship that is going nowhere” or “not being able to lose the weight needed for maintaining good health.”
Why Can’t I Move Forward?
There are many other contingent reasons for feeling stuck in life! The issue here is to find out what it is that keeps you from feeling stuck and why it promotes a lack of motivation and organization. Why does it hold you back from mapping out a reasonable plan to initiate toward your goals? Why does it sometimes prevent you from taking that big step of action, which may lead you to some degree of success?
Success, What Does It Mean?
I say some degree of success because success usually comes in increments. Expecting too much too soon could lead to disappointment and eventual failure of your quest. However, I don’t believe in failures as failures; instead, I attribute failures to little stepping stones that affect the big picture. They should be regarded as…experiences that we learn and take important information from to apply in achieving our goals.
Knowing The Cause Is Not Necessarily The Remedy
But in finding out what keeps you from feeling motivated enough to pursue your goals, may not exactly alleviate the feelings of lack of motivation. At best, it may give you some form of comfort and insight as to how to deal with the issue of something holding you down or back from doing what you really want to be doing. I like my clients to have some measure of knowledge about what it is that gets in the way of achievement; however, it is not the crucial factor of excelling and recovery.
The Crucial Component of Success!
The crucial component of success is tapping into one’s psyche and learning from it what end result gives you the power and passion to take action and deliver the goods.
Yes, it’s the end that prompts you to proceed to the prize!
Now, it may take some unraveling of accumulated baggage that has built up over the years, but it can be done in time. And surely, success is waiting for you at a certain point. Once, you have felt the drops of small successes over a period of working toward your goals, it should supply you with enough support to continue and see your plan unfold into something great.
Actually, the small accomplishments and strides you make on a daily basis will keep the motivation level in keeping your eye on the prize as you continue with your magnificent journey!
Good luck, because I know you can do it.
